Stress is a ‘normal’ function of everyday life. Only when it appears to take over our lives does it then
become a problem.
Everyone will have different reasons why a situation causes them pressure. As a rule it’s usually when we
don’t feel in control of a situation, then we feel its grip tightening around us causing us to feel worried or
If stress is caused by us not feeling in control of a situation, the answer is to try and reverse this,
and regain that control. The good news is: YOU CAN!
You have everything inside you that you need to overcome your stress and the accompanying anxiety. The
problem is, often we don’t realize that we are in control because we feel so out of control at time. But the tools
are there, you just have to use them.
Let’s first look at the barriers we put up that are preventing us from becoming healthy and getting rid of
our anxiety and stress.
BLOCKING BEHAVIORS KEEPING YOUR STRESS ALIVE
There are three obsessive behaviors that you are likely to be engaging in that impeded your healing
process and stop you from enjoying a stress-free life. Recognizing these barriers can be a great first step toward
getting rid of the problems that go with being too stressed.
The first is obsessive negativity. When you are obsessively negative, it means that you have
a tendency toward being "negative" about people, places, situations, and things in your life.
Perhaps you find yourself saying things like "I can't do this!" or "No one understands!" or "Nothing ever
works!", for example. You may be doing this unconsciously, but essentially you have what's known as a "sour grapes"
attitude, and it holds you back from knowing what it's like to view life from a positive lens and enjoy the beauty
in yourself and people around you! There's a whole world out there for you...with happiness and positive